How do you handle confrontation…professionally? Tim and Joe chat about how confrontation is always in our lives and what is the best way to handle it.

Part 1: Tim and Joe chat about Excuses…if you are good with your life and happy with the way things are going, that’s great. If you are not happy or you want more, Go Get It…and don’t let the excuses get in your way!

 Tim and Joe chat about having the patience to deal with what comes along in life in order to be successful.

Tim and Joe talk about the value of having self-worth and self-confidence. Tim explains how he works his self-confidence and how he is able to take his self-doubt and build it into confidence.

We all encounter obstacles in life, it is how we handle our lives through the obstacles. Tim and Joe talk about life’s obstacles and how we get through them.

“It is time for us all to stand and cheer for the doer, the achiever, the one who recognizes the challenges and does something about it.” Those words came from a legend and a great coach; Vince Lombardi. 

The world is full of different kinds of people. We have the doers and achievers, the whiners and complainers, and we also have the ones who stand back and criticize both. Which one do you hang around? Each one can be like a magnet and attract like kind people. Who would be the one that will attract to you? 

So many people get caught up in the whining and complaining mode, especially at work. These are the people that can never be happy unless they are whining. Do you get caught doing the same things as them and bring the fiber and moral of the work place down to a dangerous level? I was listening to a friend the other day as he went on and on about how bad his place of work was and how if he was the manager, he would do this and do that. My response was; “seems like you are taking on two roles at work, the complainer and the critic. How do you get your own work done I asked?” The funny thing about our conversation is that he stopped whining instantly and changed the subject.

We have two real choices in life; to get up and do something about our situation or sit back and moan about it. The choice is yours. Here’s a little hint for you; when you become the doer and achiever, you have no time or desire to be the whiner, complainer or the critic. Don’t be the latter because others that are in control of their life are watching and listening and will never come to you for any future opportunity. 

Take an inventory of all the good at work and at home; it will change your perspective and it will help you see much better. Things are not that bad in life when we finally take control. Be wise, be strong and most of all; be a leader! You hold the key!

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“The way we see the problem is the problem.” Stephen Covey

Life is one big opportunity broken up into many smaller opportunities. It is always evolving. You might think that you end somewhere but any motion around you will always keep you evolving. The problem in life is that many people label themselves and they get stuck in this identity. I’m a cabinet maker by trade but I don’t let that label me. I’m so much more to the universe. I’m a husband, brother, father, coach, mentor, friend, etc. I used to be an athlete but now I only pretend. Made you smile, lol. I’m the ultimate opportunist. Life is always evolving in my world and that drives my spirit.

Problems are a big part of this evolution. Problems are the stepping stones to your future. The higher up the ladder you get in life, the bigger the problems. Most people wince at that thought but in time, I found out a secret with this phenomenon. Once the bigger problems came, I stopped worrying about the smaller problems. They became very insignificant in my new world so I don’t let them rent space in my mind because they don’t pay me a cent. See what I mean? Opportunist on my forehead!

Where are you in life right now? Where do you see yourself in the near future? If you have stopped with your last past story, you are not done. You are just in transition before your next experience, trade, love or story. Remember, we are always evolving, and opportunity is everywhere that you choose to open your eyes to. I love this one from napoleon Hill; “Whatever your mind can conceive and believe, it can achieve.”
Open up your mind and dump the trash, immediately. Train the mind to think of solutions instead of focusing on the problems. You will be happy when you finally do.

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Our 4th Installment of our #FiresideChat series – “Thinking” Thinking about what are doing, your plan to reach your goals and changing your #thinking if what you are doing is not working for you…

I love it when a new morning comes.

It reminds me of the saying; “the early bird catches the worm.” We get a new chance every day to either improve on yesterday and or, create and start a new…….. I’ll leave it for you to fill in the last word.

What are you doing with your life? Each day, you have the ability to do something about your situation. Unfortunately, most will create a new excuse to make themselves feel OK with themselves. You know what I mean; “I’ve been busy, I’ve been tired or I’ve been meaning to.” It’s a self-fulfilling prophecy of never happening. 

I’m a believer of fate and I’m a much bigger believer of making things happen. When we do, we create a magnetic force that attracts like thinking people. Napoleon Hill reminded us that, “thoughts are things.” That is the true secret in life. You think your way to your destination.

Humans were given the unique phenomenon of being able to think. With this thought, you can do something special if you choose. Where are your thoughts? Where are these thoughts bringing you? Is it time to switch up those thoughts? You have the choice! You have the choice to do something great in your life! No other being other than humans can.

Choose wisely, choose now!